Senin, 03 Desember 2012

Blaming and Accusing Someone


Look Her !!! She is blamming or she is accusing . What do you think ?


In interpersonal conversation we often exprience many kinds of situation. Blaming and accusing is one of the examples. When we blaming or accusing , sometimes we fell difficult to confess it. It's good thing if we want to understand it. The following are expresions of accusing and blaming .

Blaming


    Blaming is when someone said that person did a mistake that should be her/ his responbility, like choosing wrong way. Blaming is an expression that is used to say on somebody the responbility for something done (badly or wrongly) or not done. example : he blamed his teacher for his failure

Expressions of blaming :
  • It was your fault
  • You are the one to blame
  • Serves you right
  • You are to blame for steal my …
Responses of blaming :
  • I’m sorry. It’s my fault
  • Sorry for my fault
  • I’m sorry for the things. I’ve done 
  • It’s my responbility. I’m sorry 
2.   Accusing 
   Accusing is expression when someone said that person did something wrong although she/ he doesn’t know the truth, like stealing. Say that somebody has done wrong or broken the law, example : she accused me of thief
 
Expressions of accusing :

  • It must have been you who did it
  • I think you’re the only person who could have done it
  • You must be doing something wrong
  • You must be the door
Responses of accusing :
  • I’m sorry. It’s my fault
  • Sorry for my fault
  • I’m sorry for the things. I’ve done
  • It’s my responbility. I’m sorry

Another ...

Accusing
  •         It must have been you who did it
  •         (pastilah Kamu yang telah melakukannya)
  •         I think you're the only person who could have done it
  •         (saya kira hanya kamulah satu-satunya orang yang bisa mekakukannya)
  •         You must be doing something wrong
  •         You must be the doer

  Blaming

  •         It was your fault
  •         You are the one to blame
  •         Serves you right


    Someone who accused of blamed usually declines it. The following are the responses used

  •         It's not true
  •         It wasn't me
  •         You are wrong, I didn't do it
  •         I am not the one to blame

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