Admiting Mistake and Making Promise

Admitting Mistake

Admitting mistake is also similar to accepting failure.  However in many cases, when it is blatantly shown that the failure is because of our own mistake, we will always try to justify that IT IS CORRECT.  We seldom try to correct the mistake, especially if such a mistake is quite big scale and made as an authority.  Many people instead of admitting and correcting mistake, still pursue to "complete" the mistake and then move on.....

Sometimes, it is the damage that has been incurred that causes the problem.  Yet, we will still move on, because we are protecting our outward appearance, status, credibility, etc.  We should understand that life is a process.  During this process, there always time of consolation and desolation.  Perhaps the world is not really nice for us. The world is very cruel as they do not accept such failure.  We must understand that our soul must grow deeper and deeper.  Anything worldly is only for our training...

Benefits of admitting mistakes :

•     it demonstrates your courage
•     It demonstrates your humanity
•     It engenders more trusting relationship
•     It creates greater organizational value

Admitting mistakes expressions :

•     I’m sorry, it’s my fault.
•     You’re right. I’m fully responsible for this matter.
•     I admit what I’ve done is wrong.
•     I realize I’ve made mistakes.
•     Yes, I take the blame.
•     It’s my istakes. Forgive me.
•     It shouldn’t be like this. Forgive me.
•     I never intended it that way

Responds an admit of mistake:

•     Don’t mention it.
•     That would be okay
•     Just take it easy
•     Let it go
•     Forget it
•     That’s fine
•     I give you sorry
•     It doesn’t matter for me

Making Promise

When using the word 'promise' you are giving your word that what you are saying is true. You might also be assuring someone a guarantee that you will follow thru on what you are saying to them.

When using 'promise not to' you are stating you will not do a particular thing.

Here are some examples:

• "I promise not to tell."
• "I promise not to leave without you."
• "I promise not to be so late."
• "I promise not to hurt your feelings."
• "I promise not to wake you up."

You can also just use the word 'promise' to assure someone of your intentions.

Here are some examples:

• "I promise I am telling the truth."
• "I promise to practice my math."
• "I promise to call you."
• "I promise I will tell you."
• "I promise I will come to your party."

Before make a promise :

•     Think about the promise before you make it
•     Be honest about your capabilities
•     Talk about the promise with another person
•     Watch the things that you promised
•     Keep your mouth

Making promises expressions :

•     I swear
•     I promise
•     Trust me, I can
•     I will pick you up
•     I assure you that I will return it on time
•     I won’t go, I swear to stay here
•     I swear I will not let you down
•     Don’t worry, I’ll see you before i leave

Respond a promise :

•     Thank you
•     I believe you
•     Let me be assured
•     Okay
•     Just let the time to answer
•     I wish you can keep on your promise
•     I’ll wait for you
•     Really ?
•     I give you one more time
•     I wish you are not kidding me in this time

The three core business activities :

•     Make the promise
•     Keep the promise
•     Track the promise